Were you looking for love on an online dating site and met someone you fancy? Maybe now you are a couple, wonderful! But now, to sext or not to sext? That is the question! Some will argue that the bedroom is the one and only place for dirty talk, but there are also those who like to warm up the atmosphere and keep the flame burning even when they’re apart.
Are you looking into sexting (maybe you want to read these ‘17 Sexting Horror Stories From Hell‘ first)? Here are some dos and don’ts that will help you create effective steamy text messages without getting yourself into trouble:
Don’t sext with just anyone!
It may seem like a good idea even if you are at the beginning of a relationship, but it really isn’t. Don’t start sexting until you know and trust your partner. This goes double for nudes. It’s best just to assume they will eventually fall into the wrong hands, and act accordingly. You don’t want your colleagues, friends and relatives to see your picture on a revenge porn site. Also your partner may not be alone and by sending the message or photo, it can lead to a serious mockery by a group of your partner’s friends and if you find out you will be mortified!
Be playful and fun!
Sexting is all about the playfulness of a situation. No need to be too direct as you risk being perceived as aggressive. Instead, say something funny with a double meaning. Playing on words work wonders with sexting, helping you remain in the innocent area, but sending the right hint at the same time.
Stir the imagination!
If sexting is your way of boosting your partner’s heart rate and making them lust after you, but you don’t want to take any risks, play it on the creative side. Without saying the actual word, help them build the right image in their mind. Use visual prompts if you need and sensorial, soft words. The effect is guaranteed.
Time it right!
There is a time for sexting as there is for anything else. If you are looking for a long term relationship, you might want to refrain from sexting your partner in the early days. Wait until you know each other better!
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