2020 Dating Trends to Watch Out For

The start of 2020 is unique. We haven’t merely begun a new year. We’ve begun a new decade!

In other words, now is the perfect time to set goals and make positive changes in your life. Perhaps getting back into the dating game is one goal you’re particularly interested in. Luckily, this is easier than it’s ever been. Thanks to the rise of dating apps, there’s a very good chance this could be your best decade for romance yet.

Boost your odds of finding love (or any other type of relationship you’re looking for) by keeping the following 2020 predictions in mind. Understanding this year’s dating trends is key to your success. This is particularly true if you’ve been out of the dating environment for some time.

2020 Predictions: 5 Dating Trends to Know About

1. Being Kanye’d

It’s important to realize that not all dating trends and terminology reflect positive developments. For instance, this term, named after infamously self-aggrandizing artist Kanye West, may be the next “ghosting” trend worth being aware of.

When you’ve been “Kanye’d,” it means you’re on a date with someone who talks so much about themselves that you have no opportunity to contribute to the conversation.

Obviously, you want to avoid this. When chatting with someone you’ve met through an online dating site or app, pay attention to how much time they devote to your interests and life. You may not want to waste time scheduling a date with someone who doesn’t seem concerned with learning about you.

That said, another online dating tip you should remember is simple: don’t be the one who Kanye’s someone else. A first date with someone from an online dating site can be an intimidating experience. Even if you’re an otherwise polite individual, you might ramble if you feel awkward and uncomfortable.

Avoid this by preparing some questions you’ll ask your date ahead of time. You don’t want the date to turn into an interview, but you do want to ask questions that indicate you’re genuinely interested in learning about the person you’re with.

2. Snowmanning

Many people dislike the idea of being alone during certain holiday seasons. They see happy couples enjoying themselves, and wish to have the same experiences.

This has resulted in an online dating trend in which people make passionate romantic connections during these times of the year. Unfortunately, in many of these instances, the two people involved are not on the same page. One person might be interested in a casual fling to pass the holidays, while the other might be looking for a long-term relationship.

Your romantic goals are, well, your own. You don’t need to pursue a life partner right now if you’re currently in the mood for flirtatious dating. That said, you’ll enjoy your experiences much more if you find partners and dates whose goals align with yours.

Researching online dating sites before choosing which to use will help. For instance, if you’re interested in a long-term commitment, you may benefit from making an eHarmony account, or choosing a specialized service such as EliteSingles.

3. White Clawing

White Claw spiked seltzers defined 2019 drinking culture for many people. It’s a safe 2020 prediction to assume they’ll continue to stay popular.

However, this hip beverage isn’t as flavorful as some would prefer. Many believe its appeal has less to do with taste and more to do with its low caloric content. Thus, it has given name to this new dating trend.

White Clawing involves staying in a relationship with someone who isn’t actually exciting but is physically attractive. This is an understandable mistake to make. That said, if you want your love life in 2020 to be as rewarding as possible, it’s best to avoid doing so. Experts point out that a happy long-term relationship relies on more than mere physical attraction. General compatibility is far more essential in the long run.

4. Eclipsing

Here’s a 2020 prediction that will almost certainly come true if you consistently use online dating sites and apps: you’ll find at least one person you’re interested in dating. However, you need to remember that being interested in someone isn’t the same as being compatible with them. Most people of a certain age can relate to the experience of having a crush on someone who, in retrospect, wasn’t genuinely a good match.

Some people try to force relationships with their crushes by pretending to share their interests and lifestyle. During the first few dates, this tactic might seem to yield a connection. That said, it’s not a strategy you should rely on. Research has shown that people who enjoy the most positive dating experiences also tend to be people who know how to remain true to their own identities.

This isn’t just an important tip to remember during in-person dates. It’s also a valuable online dating tip. Quite simply, if your online dating site profiles don’t reflect your true self, you won’t attract the right matches. For example, Match.com uses a complicated algorithm based on your profile answers to send you compatible singles. You’re far more likely to find the relationship you’re looking for if you’re willing to be honest and authentic.

5. Yellow Carding

It’s no secret that not all people are as socially skilled as others. This is often quite apparent in the online dating realm. Sometimes people behave disrespectfully after matching with someone on a dating site or app. Often, this behavior doesn’t become truly apparent until the first in-person date.

Yellow carding is the act of letting a date or match know when they’re engaging in socially inappropriate or awkward behavior. Its rise is among the most common 2020 predictions made by dating experts.

The manner in which it will affect you may vary depending on circumstances. If you feel a match isn’t showing you the proper respect, you might feel it’s a good idea to let them know. Perhaps they have a social “blind spot” that’s preventing them from enjoying fulfilling relationships. If you offer genuinely constructive criticism, you could be doing them a favor.

Just remember that you may receive such criticism yourself. Don’t dismiss it entirely if this happens. This isn’t always a poor reflection on your character. Again, if you haven’t been involved in the dating scene for a long time, you may not fully understand how certain behaviors may come across.

That’s not to say you should worry. Don’t let these 2020 predictions for dating trends concern you. On the contrary, knowing about these 2020 predictions ahead of time will simply help you succeed in romance and dating this year, and every year to come.

Best of luck! Start your 2020 dating journey now by signing up for an online dating site!